What’s the weirdest coincidence you’ve ever experienced?
I mentioned him many times. I met him when I was a kid. I met him at an AA meeting for a quick moment. I met a guy at work who was his buddy at the time. Which I didn’t know he was. We were to go on a blind date or double date, but that never happened. We met Friday the 13th. We stuck together for 35 years. I miss him because he passed away. If that is a coincidence I don’t know what is.
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What’s a book you never finished but still think about?
I like to read about the paranormal, Aliens, Witchcraft, and reincarnation. Every time I start reading my son wants to talk to me. I enjoy talking to him, but I lose my focus and I close my book. When I want to read I lose my focus because when I have things on my mind I can’t concentrate. But one day I will get there. I do enjoy the subjects and I have learned a lot. I read about these subjects online. There is always something new to learn
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Which fictional world would be the most fun to vacation in?
I would pick Goofy. He is funny, serious, and cute. I just like Goofy. Mickey and Minnie are okay. Donald is too serious. Plus he has Daisy. I like Peter Pan, but he flies, and I like to keep my feet on the ground. So the winner is Goofy.
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I wrote in another question how I met my hubby. To this question I will say. There was a man at work I liked and I asked for his number and he gave it to me. We talked for 2 weeks and then all of a sudden, he had his friend come on the phone. I said, ‘who the hell are you ‘? He was going to hang up on me, but he didn’t. We talked for a long time. When we met. It was love at first sight. It was a great day.
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If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?
I find that time very interesting. The history sounds romantic, and fighting for what you believe in. Women would also fight for what they believed in. Both sexes were treated equally. It is not like that today. People believe the Vikings were vicious and just took whatever they wanted. History made them out to be bad and selfish. I believe back then they fought for what they believed in and that takes a lot of courage. There are two sides to every story. Today we live in a world of money, power and greed. I respect those who fought for their freedom. Today we live in a controlled world. That is really sad. I would rather fight for freedom than for anyone to control my life.
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What’s a cultural tradition from your country that you love?
I don’t follow any culture, or any traditions. I follow my heart. Which means I do what makes me happy. I light candles, I light incense and I have a lot of color in my house. Color adds character.
That is as simple as I get. I do what’s right for me. End of story.
I am a very spiritual person which means I believe in the spirit realm. I believe with all my heart that people and even animals go into the spirit realm. They are connected to family, friends and spouses.
When my husband passed away. I feel him touching me spiritually. There is coolness around me and I feel it on my skin. I believe when you pass on your physical body dies, but our spirit body moves on, if I didn’t believe that I wouldn’t be writing about it.
I never felt any peace with religion, but being spiritual gave me peace that I am not alone.
I also believe in other realms and the paranormal. Mystery has always intrigued me. Reincarnation is another intriguing subject. It explains a lot about personality, fears, and our dreams. It explained things in my life now. Reincarnation is not fiction. It is very real.
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If you could relive one day from your past, which day would it be and why?
When I was 9 years old. I met a boy. He wanted to sit with me. I was eating a vanilla ice cream 🍦. He liked me and I liked him. His mom said we talked for half an hour like we knew each other. We did from a past life we were together. That is a story for a book 📚. I wish I could have given him my number. It would have saved me a lot of bad experiences. We met again at an AA meeting. We were helping people. I didn’t realize he was that little boy I met in the park. I met a friend of his at work. We talked after 2 weeks. I got a call from him, and he put his friend on the phone. The first thing I said was.”who the hell are you?” I didn’t realize he was the boy from the park. We met Friday the 13th and we have been together for 35 years. I miss him.
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I enjoyed watching Titanic. It was very long, but I still enjoyed it. It had romance, some history, and adventure. It was sad when Jack died because he truly loved Rose. Love never dies when you truly love someone.
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If you could erase one event from history, what would it be?
No one has learned from any part of history. So why bother to change anything. We haven’t learned from our mistakes. We are still living in medieval times. We still kill people, we argue about different religions, we hate people because they disagree with each other. People still want to have power, and control all people. We don’t care for human beings, we live in a selfish world. If I could change anything in my life. I would have left home earlier in life. People talk about trust. I don’t trust anymore. So history keeps on repeating itself. People talk about going to space, but only the rich can achieve that goal, but why go out there when we cannot get along here. Why destroy another planet. We are destroying this planet. So erasing history. We can’t because no one listens. Humans need to make a big change, but I never see that happening.
I wish the world was full of peace, but it will never be.
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What’s a conspiracy theory you actually find believable?
I won’t say which one’s. I don’t believe in what people say, but I do say actions speak louder than words. Life is full of mystery and people only think in the box because the truth would blow up everything they believed in to be wrong and they wouldn’t know what to do. There are many theories that are true, but people want science to prove all things, but I don’t agree. Mystery opens up all possibilities. It just depends on what you want to believe in. When closing one door another door opens. When you unlock the key to the truth, you would shake your head and say why didn’t I listen to what my gut says is right.
We can theorize about anything, but when do we say what’s real, and what is just wishful thinking.
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Uncertainty is a very scary thing when you have no one to share your fears with.
I called the title. Life’s Rolling Stones because one thing starts another thing happens and then more things happen. It is scary because anxiety kicks in. Depression is something that does not go away. Solving solutions is hard when you don’t have money to do the job.
Who do you trust, who will listen, who will help. I don’t know. Uncertainty makes me feel powerless. Living your life this way. It is depressing, scary and not knowing what tomorrow will bring. The only way I can live my life is one day at a time.
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What’s a moment when you realized you were officially an adult?
When you have a disability you are treated like a child. Most people who do not have a disability understand what it’s like to have a disability. It is challenging, it is going through a lot of judgement by people who misunderstand you. You are not allowed to think for yourself because people think your decisions are not for you. You will never live your dreams. It is a big slap on the face. Especially family members who don’t believe you can stand on your own.
The only person who believed in me was my husband. Also my grandmother. I miss her. When you are not heard. Your life gets much harder.
I am now 63 and I don’t listen to my family. They are out of my life. Even my mother-in-law too. That stress is gone. I have to struggle on my own, but I am doing what I want to do. It took me 63 years, and I never gave up the fight. Just because you have a disability doesn’t mean you have to stop believing in your dreams. Being an adult means you have independence, but a little guidance goes a long way.
Being an adult is not easy, but having the inner strength helps along my journey. My kids give me strength too. Love is key to success. Especially when it comes from the heart, and not your pocket book. Having a disability doesn’t mean you will fail. It just means you have to work harder to reach your goals.
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I would like to meet her because I would like to know why she wrote the books 📚.
Witchcraft has always intrigued me. I know Hollywood has used special effects. But witchcraft is not something you learn lightly, it’s real and it can be scary, but has a spiritual connection and nature is also a big part of it. Her books are interesting.
I wonder what kind of person she is. I wonder what inspired her to write these books. I give her this. She has a wild imagination.
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What’s a moment when a stranger completely restored your faith in people?
I have a very hard time trusting people. I believed in my family, but I felt betrayed. I believed in my friends and they stabbed me in the back. When a person says a word to me it has to be proven. Humanity is not fair, it is for the rich. It really is.
A woman who works with my son and daughter helped me with issues with our house. She gave me hope that people do care about me and my kids. I will never forget her. She worked hard to get things organized for us. There is hope some people truly care.
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What’s the best local dish you’ve ever eaten while traveling?
I really enjoyed 🦞 lobster, but I found out I was allergic to sea food. I enjoyed it at the time. It is expensive today so I like lobster 🦞 swim free and shrimp too.
Food is nice when I don’t have to make it. My husband cooked for me. I miss that.
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What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
Listen to what your 💜 Heart wants. But listen to what your gut says. It will never steer you wrong.
Friendship and love go hand in hand. First friendship because when that comes first your relationship will last for a long time. When your best friend is gone, it’s hard to start over. But if you don’t try. You only end up a cat lady. I love cats. But that is not enough. Friendship ends loneliness.
That is what I have learned in my life .
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What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore?
I used to want my parents love. Now I don’t care anymore. Nothing I did was good enough. I started to love myself when I met my hubby. His love was enough for me.
When life slaps you so hard you learn from that. I learned from them you can’t trust people who do things behind your back. This was proven over and over to me. So now I am on my own, but my kids keep me going. They are adults now. I am proud of them. My love for my kids means a lot to me because I am not my parents I am me. I wouldn’t change that for anything in the world 🌍
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What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life?
To trust or not to trust?
That is the question.
That is my quote
Trusting a person or persons is very important. I have learned the hard way when I trusted people close to me. I got stabbed in the heart. Now I rely on one person that is me. Plus my kids. If I meet people they have to prove through their actions if I can trust them or not.
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If you had to give one life-changing tip, what would it be?
Money is important to live. We need to eat, and have a place to be safe. A home, an apartment. We need furniture and kitchen stuff. Money to buy pleasurable things to enjoy in our life. But if you can put money away. You just might need it for an emergency. Surprises happens. Good and bad things. That extra money can save your life. I wish I knew this when I was younger. This is something to think about.
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What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do?
Before we had the internet we would write letters and mail them. We would write stories in paper pages. Today we don’t write letters, we just email and write on WordPress. We do so much online. People write more than just having a conversation. Old school is out and new age stuff is now. If old timers learn the new slang we will be fine. Some people still do it the old fashion way and others go with the flow.
Enjoy what you do.
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Who is the fictional character you relate to the most?
His fictional character is like my life. Abandonment is something I can relate to. His life is witchcraft and magic. Mystery always intrigued me and it still does. Harry Potter series is fictional, but nature and spirits, and the paranormal and witchcraft makes a good book. Spells in witchcraft are real and that can be scary. But living nature’s magic can be powerful and magical. Life is a mystery and I question all things. Harry Potter is the icing on the cake. Enjoy it.
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I believe what happens in life is for a reason, but some things are just a tragedy. When you lose your best friend. That is sad.
What we do in life makes us stronger. It has for me. I believe what I have learned in life is for a reason.
I have learned not to trust people which include family. I have faced many challenges and that is making me a stronger person. Many people take things for granted, but I have learned a lot about life and what I need to do.
I believe things happen for a reason, but learning from it is the best way to survive. Your eyes are always open, but your gut tells you what is right and what is wrong. Life comes with pain, but some good things happen for a reason.
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Color adds to a room. I like bright colors. Baby blue, dark blue, lime green. My living room is full of books. A big tv and an Xbox. A stable bike that doesn’t go anywhere and a work out area. A nice kitchen. That’s about it.
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What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever?
The song Together was my wedding 💍 song. Every time I hear it I cry. I miss my best friend. He chose the song. I am glad he did. The song is by Joey Gregorash.
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If you could rewrite any book’s ending, which one would you choose?
Everyone has a story. Everyone wishes for a better ending. But real life is not like that. We can’t change death, who we love. We can’t change the disease we had unless it could heal itself. A book cannot change your pain, your anger, your disability. It can make you stronger by being truthful to yourself. You can dream of a better ending, But it can’t change the outcome. Life is hard enough. So why pretend. You can write fiction, love, mystery, Alien beings. The one thing you can do is dream.
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Someone told me writing works for you. Your poetry is beautifully written. You have a way of words. My dream is to write books. When my husband passed away I stopped writing. I do write here and I enjoy it. I write about what intrigues me. Thank you for following me.
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What’s a promise you made to yourself that you’ve actually kept?
My mother was not there for me. My grandmother was more like a mom to me. I watched T.V. with her, and I ate with her and I cried with her. She is missed. My mom didn’t walk to school. I walked on my own. Plus I took a bus when school was further away. My parents cared more for my brother and sister. Everything I did wasn’t good enough.
When I met my husband. My life changed. I promised myself that I wouldn’t be like my parents. I loved my children equally. I listened to them. I was the referee. I was fair. I took my children to school, when they went to school they took a bus, but I was there to meet them. My kids are adults now and I love them equally. They are my life. My kids still live with me, and I love it. My kids are my life now. Now I am mom and dad. I am cool with that. I promised myself I will never be my parents. I am proud of that.
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If you could have dinner with any fictional character, who would it be?
He is my favorite character. He is funny. He was himself. He was real and truthful. I know he is fictional, but I can dream. Walt Disney made me 😂 laugh. It cheered me up when I was down. But Goofy always put a smile 😁 on my face.
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What app eats up most of your screen time — and do you even feel bad about it?
I like being online and where I live I get a lot of screen time. I listen to music and write stuff, and I answer questions and shop online. It’s fun. I can’t complain.
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What’s one habit that has improved your life the most?
I am glad the Internet was created. I like to write and share what I believe in. People can like it or not like it. It is what I believe in and enjoy writing about. It gives me purpose. Being alone can make anyone crazy, but writing gives me comfort and that I don’t feel alone here. I enjoy creating images with the programs they have online. I can’t draw, but I can imagine. I write what I want to see, and wow!! An image pops up. It’s fun and it saves on paper. Even though I want to write books one day. I love computers, my phone. Writing any time I want. Even listen to music. Watch the paternity court. Time flies that way.
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What’s a movie or book that inspired you to travel?
I like staying in one place. I like being at home. It is my safe place. It is where I feel comfortable. If I was a 🐦 bird. I would go all over the world. I am not a bird, so I stay home. If I was another person I might travel, but I am just me.
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If you could erase one trend from history, what would it be?
I believe we all have our own style. I don’t like being told what to wear, and what colors I look good in. Also how long or short my hair should be. Even what color my hair should be.
My favorite color is black 🖤. It drove my parents nuts, and I loved that. I still love black at my age.
Be you.
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People are terrified of bed bugs. They don’t even want to stand near you. So they make up any excuse not to visit you. Not even businesses want to come in. Just ranting today.
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Do you think we’re shaped more by our experiences or by who we are?
Our experiences make us who we are. I believe that strongly. Our actions say so much about people we are close with. Be it friends and even family. I believe being honest with someone is very important. I believe someone has to prove what they say to me through their actions. Words are not enough. What I believe in is based on my own feelings and how I see the world. My opinion is my opinion. What I believe is important to me. If people don’t agree with me. I don’t mind because I believe what I believe is true. Life is about living your life your way. In the end it’s your life anyway. I have experienced a lot in my life, and I am still learning new things. Life has its lessons and even at my age I am still learning. Experiences happen at any age
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If you had to be an animal for a week, which one would you be and why?
I wouldn’t call it an animal, but a little creature. A butterfly 🦋 is a symbol of freedom. To fly and go anywhere I wanted to go. A butterfly 🦋 doesn’t have a long life, but a butterfly 🦋 is beautiful. Monarchs are beautiful with their colors. Freedom is a beautiful word because you can do anything you want to truly do. Life is short, so make it your way.
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What’s a piece of technology you’re convinced will exist in 20 years?
The computer age is here. Which can be good and bad. It is what we do with it that is important. There are conveniences to it.
Writing and getting known without having to leave your house. That works for me. Making images I cannot draw on paper. That works for me. We live in a world of opportunities, so why not computers and cell phones to make it useful to people who need it. So I believe they are here to stay.
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There are different books 📚 on gemstones and their meanings. I enjoy looking up the meanings. It is a spiritual experience for me. These gems help me heal. I read books 📚 on reincarnation, and witchcraft books. There is magic in these subjects that intrigues me.
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I enjoy learning new things. I took a course in the paranormal and finished with honors. I enjoy mystery and magic. Reincarnation is intriguing to me because it opened to why I feel different about things. The spirit realm intrigues me because I know people I care about are still watching over me. I believe in aliens life form. They are a part of us. That is only my belief. You never stop learning. The more you learn makes you more knowledgeable. I wish I could go beyond the stars. To see what is beyond us.
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What’s a chapter of your life you’d title “The Hard Years” — and what got you through it?
When my husband passed away. My life changed. I depended on him for a lot. Now I rely on myself. It is not easy. I do ask for help which is hard for me. I need to trust again. My children who are adults now help me, so that gives me courage to do what I need to do. I cry a lot but that is my healing way. Writing helps me cope too. The people who follow me here I appreciate. So thank you for following my journey.
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Tess is a love story, and betrayal. It is in a time period that had hard ships and sacrifices. It was about family. There should be another book about her daughter that fell in love and what happened to her. Love never dies. We all need it.
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Without a villain you can’t have a great story. If you always have good guys it would be boring. It is the same in real life too. You have good people and you have bad people. When you can’t trust someone it is for a good lesson. Real life has villains in it, but they don’t wear costumes, but business suits. It is something to think about. Without any villain life would be boring. With mystery comes adventure.
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If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
I like it where I am. My neighbors know me and I know them. It is a nice area where I live. My house 🏡 is mine and my adult kids live with me. So I am happy here.
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It depends on what is going on. My bed bugs are seriously hard to get rid of. My daughter found a video online and it works. It kills them on the spot.
That to me is chaos. Getting my life back would be nice. Time will tell.
I have learned a lot about myself. I have learned to trust people to help me when I need help and still do things on my own. My life gave me lemons but I made lemonade 🍋 instead.
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What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger?
I hated being told. I can’t have long hair. I was told how to live. I trusted family and now I don’t. I am free . Life is better when you can make your own choices.
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Hit 5,000 steps today and drop your achievement here — we’re cheering you on!
Living is an achievement in itself. I was meant not to live at birth, but here I am. I didn’t think I would walk and be in a wheelchair. My parents told me that. I walk even though my legs don’t want to. I never thought I would get married, but I did. I never thought I would have children, but I did. That is my achievement. My achievements came with determination and if I didn’t have that I would not be here writing about it. My life was a challenge and it still is. My kids who are adults keep me going.
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What’s the best way to deal with negative thoughts?
When you are sad then think happy thoughts. When you are worried try thinking of other things. When you are depressed think of happy moments. It is not easy, but trying is a step in the right direction. Life can be challenging when we fear doing things, but without trying we won’t know if we can do something. We have our good days and our bad days. Never give up when life feels hopeless.
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What’s a time you followed your gut and it turned out to be exactly right?
There were many times I felt weird and something wasn’t right. But I never told anyone. I could pick up on the vibes I would get. The only person I told was my husband. So that is my story.
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What’s something you used to believe as a kid that seems ridiculous now?
Growing up I did believe in my parents. Today I don’t talk to them anymore. I believed they loved me. Now I don’t love them. My childhood was hard. Life goes on. As children we trust our family, but I don’t trust anymore.
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If you could change the ending of any book, which one would it be?
I plan to write books 📚. I wish I had a happy ending , but there is one for disabilities. I want to write about it. And other books too. When my life is back to normal. I can focus on my books 📚.
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Which languages do you speak and how did that impact your life?
English is an interesting language. Writing it can get confusing, but saying it is not so bad. But if you know a teacher they correct you a little too much especially in front of your family. But life goes on.
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What’s the best advice you’d give to someone younger than you?
I am 63, but my spirit feels younger. People say I look 50 maybe younger. I color my hair, and I wear makeup. I don’t care what people say. I am me. My mind feels young. Enjoy who you truly want to be. Let no one tell you how to live and tell you what to do. Life is short so live it your way. No matter what your challenges are. Keep believing you are worth it.
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I am not inspired by anyone in particular, but I do believe in my husband. He passed away, but when he was alive I admired him, trusted him and believed in him. He was my best friend and still is. He gave me the strength to believe in me. He was truthful. He was my inspiration. My daughter and son give me encouragement. I couldn’t ask for anything better than that.
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For anyone to be successful you should believe in yourself. That is a hard thing to do when a lot of your life is negative. Life is a challenge, but inner strength and will can take you places where you never thought possible. Challenges might be challenging, but keep being persistent because anything is possible. All people can’t do everything, but believe in your goals and your dreams. Nothing is impossible. Don’t quit because trying leads to success. Never give up your dreams when people say you can’t. It’s your life.
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What’s a book, movie, or TV show that you wish you could experience again for the first time?
Although Harry Potter is fiction. I still enjoy watching magic. Hollywood has made it intriguing and scary. Real witchcraft is not Harry Potter, but it does have traits of magical stuff. Potions, spells, and closeness with nature. There is nothing wrong with magic.
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What’s a common misconception people have about happiness?
People say you need money 💰 to be happy. Yes we need 💰 money. But more importantly we need to be true and trustworthy to those people we love the most. To be truly happy one needs to be truthful about what they want out of life, and what is your lifestyle. Happiness is not about the money 💰, but happiness is about living your life your way and not letting anyone telling you how to live. That is happiness 😊.
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If you could instantly master any skill, what would it be and why?
Having memories that are meaningful to me like my husband, and my children. They are very important to me. When you are born normal and have no issues you wouldn’t understand what it would be like to not remember the simplest memories .
I would love to remember so much. I remember things, but even that is limited.
I wish my memory was better. I would love to have that ability. I still struggle but I try and remember. When things are routine I remember. Life challenges me everyday, but I take one day at a time.
Writing helps me remember and I am glad I have this ability.
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Learning Life is a continuing lesson . You never stop learning.
When my husband passed away last year. I have learned to look after my family and myself. It is not easy, but I am learning. I am growing in learning to rely on myself. It used to be my husband making the decision and now it’s me and I think I am doing pretty well.
Life has its ups and downs and time will be better.
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What’s a thing you were completely obsessed with as a kid?
I always wondered what is above the stars, the planets, and if we were truly alone or not. I believe it would be a waste of space 🚀 if it was just us.
Life is a mystery. Why are we here. What is our purpose. What do we need to learn. Life is a puzzle 🧩 and I like puzzles.
I always wondered if the stars are gateways to other planets and places. What would be there, and what life is out there. I hope life there is better than here.
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What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self?
I wish I knew my
rights. I wish I wouldn’t have relationships until I met the right guy. I wish I could have done many things. But I have learned a lot and I will do better in my next life.
I believe in reincarnation and second chances. I hope that life will be better than this one. I don’t regret my husband and my kids. May my husband’s spirit be free.
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Write your guide to setting healthy boundaries in relationships.
Being truthful is a great start. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Be yourself.
Having the same interests. Enjoy the same things. Don’t be fake, be real.
If you can sit in the same room all day and talk about anything to everything. Then you are with the right person. Be patient, be loving and listen to each other. Be best friends.
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Do you think humans will ever colonize Mars? What would life there actually look like?
I don’t think so because we don’t get along here. We have wars with each other, we hate people we don’t even know. We can’t get along with people, so why go to Mars and make the same actions there.
I believe we have destroyed places where we should have left alone. We live in a selfish world. We need to work out our differences here first. But I don’t see that.
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What’s a cultural tradition from another country that you wish existed in yours?
There are beautiful cultural things people do. I can’t choose anyone. But I would rather create my own thing then follow others. That is how one creates beautiful experiences.
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I like to make people smile. It is my way to make people happy. A happy smile is just saying I like what you write. There is nothing wrong with smiling. If I put a 💜 heart people would take it the wrong way. So smile 😀 and have a nice day or night wherever you are in the world 🌍.
What’s a song that always puts you in a good mood?
This was my wedding song. It is a happy song because my husband picked that song. He gave three kids. My first born I don’t get along with, but my other two are great. They live with me. The song will always be in my 💜 heart. He brought love and friendship into my life and I will never forget that.
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Share a proverb you think is completely wrong and make your case.
I don’t think it’s a proverb but it’s what I believe.
The family is loving and protective and truthful. To me I have learned the hard way you can’t trust your family. It is their actions through my experiences that made me feel the way I do.
To me family is not blood, but they are there because they want to be. Their actions are truthful. They don’t lie to you. That to me is family. It is not by blood, but by loving someone because they mean something to you.
My family has 3 people in it and I can live with that. If I meet a man that I can trust then I will be happy again.
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Building self confidence can be stressful, but worth it in the end. It builds confidence. It makes you more determined. It is power, and that you are in control.
I want to build strength in myself, by doing weight training, but starting is the hardest part. I need to believe in myself. One step at a time. Confidence comes with making mistakes but learning makes you stronger too.
The more confidence you feel will make you believe in yourself. Keep believing.
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Shows are fine but when the series ends it is a little sad because they should have made the ending more exciting. Even with some movies, life goes on. Some endings are okay and others suck.
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I don’t believe in loyal subscribers. If you are interested in a subject or subjects people write you will follow them. It is as simple as that.
Even if one person likes what you write that means something to the writer. If you follow someone and do not like what they write, then why bother following. Is it because you want many followers and you don’t care about their content. If you like something it shows your interest is sincere.
Liking something is great, but people should be real in what they enjoy reading.
When people write a log blog it is time consuming, but what is important is what they write about means something to you.
Enjoy what you write because you are here for you. People liking your work is a plus, but in the end what matters is what you want to share makes you feel good.
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How do you get rid of thirty years of stuff and clutter. What to toss and what to keep.
The memories of going for walks with my husband, watching him play fallout 76 and just being in his presence was good enough for me. The simple things are the best.
Getting rid of stuff that is another.
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I do believe in soulmates because I knew my husband in past lives. We had many lives together. My soul remembers each life we had, but I can’t collect those memories. I wish I could. Reincarnation is part of us if it wasn’t we wouldn’t feel a special attraction to someone. People say you wish you were that person, but I believe I was that person. How can you know something without being that person.
People say when you die everything dies, but I believe that is not true because my husband’s spirit is with me and my family. Love never dies unless you make it that way. His love is always with me and I know when I die we will meet in the spirit realm. When you love someone money 💰 is not worth anything, but true love never dies and that is priceless.
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What’s something you’d love to see in the future, but know you probably won’t live to witness?
In this world 🌍 we live in Wars, communism and a lot of hate. We have religious wars and political wars. We hate people we don’t even know because we are brought up to hate people’s religious beliefs.
Why I call the title freedom is because we are told how to live, who to marry, and who our friends should be. It’s so wrong.
Freedom is living life your way, and living your dream and marrying whoever you want. I would love to see peace, but that will never be.
Life is complicated so why make it worse. Humanity is so divided, it will never be. Freedom is lost. So sad.
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What’s a moment in your life that felt like it was straight out of a movie?
I was in the park because my school was in a building that had a small gym. It was a nice day. So gym day was outside in the park. My gym teacher wanted me to get the guys from the other side of the park. It was a bit of a distance. The guys were watching the girls from a high tree . On the way there I felt I was being watched. It gave me the chills. I suddenly stopped and looked at the road and I felt I was being watched. I didn’t see anyone. I, all of a sudden started running as if my life depended. I didn’t tell anyone because no one would believe me. I always felt I was being watched. It was creepy and I will never forget that day.
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Go on a walk today and share a photo of something that catches your eye.
In my area I went for a walk with my son. He thought it was a cat because there are so many near where we live. I said it is a raccoon 🦝 and I was right.
I don’t go out much, so this is not taken today. I only walk with my son just in case I fall. I do love taking pictures of nature and flowers too
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What’s the first book you ever finished and still remember to this day?
I remember it because I enjoyed it. I do like other books 📚. The paranormal stories, reincarnation, even about witchcraft. Even stories about spirits. Ghost 👻 stories. These subjects intrigue me because they have opened doors to so much. Even 📚 books on gemstones and their uses. I even enjoy stories about Aliens because I know they exist. Without mystery we wouldn’t question anything. Mystery intrigues me too.
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What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it?
I believe with all my heart that trust is a very important part of any relationship. It includes family. If you can’t trust your own family who can you trust. Relationships are important because everyone needs someone to depend on. My husband who passed away was the one person I could trust. He didn’t hide anything from me. My parents hid a lot from me, and I will never forget or forgive them. To me trust has to be earned. Not just by words, but through their actions.
People can say I love you and I want the best for you, but when you hide important facts, and you find out it is just lies. You can’t trust family, or even friends. I have learned to trust myself. If anyone comes into my life. They have to prove their actions are true and what they tell me is true. It is important to trust what your gut tells you.
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If you had an unlimited budget for 24 hours, what would you do?
I wish I had the money to fix my house. I would get new windows 🪟, doors. I would fix the electrical in my whole house 🏡. When you have money you don’t think about having to struggle with money. You buy what you want. Fix stuff.
I wish I had the money 💰, but I have to pay my bills first.
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When you are on your own. Crying and sitting in bed is the only way I know. I put off what I need to do. Eventually I get around to doing what I need to do.
Anxiety is something you can’t explain to someone who is not in the same position as you. They think you’re faking your emotions. Just to get attention. It is not true.
People think I am a strong person but deep down I am crying for help but no one listens. I am not here to get attention, or someone to feel sorry for me. It is my way to release my feelings about anxiety. It is a disability. It is not noticeable, but it exists.
I believe fear comes from anxiety, but how people deal with it is different for each person. Having no friends makes life more challenging. People say no one is alone, but that is not true. I live for my kids, that keeps me going.
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When a family is not truthful and they hide their truths. I know this through my experience with family. It is also trusting what you were brought up to believe and realizing later in life what you believed is now not true. It is hard for me to trust anyone because I was lied to all my life. Trusting people only comes through their actions, not just words being said. I have learned a lot about people since my husband passed away. Reality is looking after my kids and making sure they are not being lied to. Reality is hard enough especially when I am on my own.
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Life means different things to different people. My life was one challenge after another. But I fought and I never gave up.
I didn’t know what my dream was, but I know what my dream is now. To write books 📚 . That is my challenge. To succeed in this tough industry.
Life is about living your dream and not giving up. I have lost a lot, but at the same time. I didn’t give up. I have learned to rely on myself. That is what life is all about.
I always say. Trust your gut. It won’t steer you wrong. Life is about challenges, failure or success. It all depends on you.
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How do you stay motivated when learning something new?
When you are interested in a subject that is a start in the right direction. I am interested in the paranormal realms. The spirit realm intrigues me because I have learned when you pass away your spiritual body, and your soul and personality goes with you. Death is a doorway to the spirit realm. I believe in it. Reincarnation is a second chance in life. What intrigues me may not intrigue you, but another subject may intrigue you and give you the motivation to learn more about what you enjoy. I hope this helps you. I am also intrigued by weight training, but staying motivated is difficult, but when I am ready I will get into it again. Strength is not always physical but emotional. Whatever intrigues you is a starting point to any interest.
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I really hate that word. It makes me feel old. There are words that just annoy people. The only word I truly hate is dear. If you don’t know my name ask. But only if I want to share my name I will, if not it is for a reason.
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What’s a moment that made you realize you were stronger than you thought?
Life is hard when you can’t trust your own family. When I moved out of the house. My life changed. I felt independent. It was a good feeling. My husband was my best friend and rock. When he passed away my life changed again. I learned to rely on myself. That is my strength now. Strength does not always mean physical, it can be emotional strength.
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What’s a simple pleasure in life that brings you joy?
Love is an important part of my life. It shows caring, being with a person no matter what. It is about trusting which is very important. Good communication helps too. The only people I trusted was my husband and my children. I hope I can trust a man again because I am not ready to die. I will always love my best friend, but life goes on.
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I was intrigued when I started reading books 📚 on reincarnation. It explained a lot about my childhood. I was also intrigued about my personality and why I feel connected to weight training and strength. Also why I fought for living life my way. Reincarnation is not made up of experiences but real experiences that I went through that affect my life today. I feel a strong connection with the lives I had. It is intriguing when you think about it with an open mind. I believe also when you dream of a past life, it is a door to your deep subconscious memories that want to be explored. It is not your imagination, but memories that are awake inside of you that want to be remembered.
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